Small and Simple Things that will keep Marriage Last and Strong

They say that by small things, great miracles come to pass. This also applies to a marriage relationship.

Dean L. Larsen, a christian leader once said that "Marriages don't succeed automatically, those who build happy, secure, successful marriages pay the price, To do so, they work at it constantly." I believe in this statement. Just like the plant that needs simple things like water and sunlight in order to live and grow, and so our relationship with our spouse needs simple constant efforts to strengthen and to make it our best experience ever in life

I had been married to a wonderful man for almost two years, and I can tell that the decision in marrying my husband was the reason I am experiencing the sweetness of life. I am not saying that our marriage was without trials and challenges, we do, just like any other couple experience some difficulties. But our ability to cope up with our differences and to love each other despite our imperfections makes our marriage life together a joyful one.

Being friends - I guess one thing that truly helps us to joyfully face life together is that because we do not only see each other as husband and wife, but also as friends - best of friends. Being best of friends means being open to each other and sensitive enough to feel your partner's feelings, desires and needs.

Dates - We keep our courtship alive by going on regular dates. Dating means leaving the worries behind and spending quality time with one's spouse. It draws the couple closer to each other. Washing clothes and dishes may not be appealing to some but these activities are considered dating and surely fun (for us women). When your budget permits, going on movies or going on an overnight swimming will add spice to your dates.


Forgiveness - I believe that in a relationship, saying "I'm sorry" is as important as saying "I love you". When misunderstandings arise, we always reconcile by saying the sweet five letter word "sorry" as quick as we can. I think that right question when faced with this situation is WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO? instead of WHO IS RIGHT OR WRONG?, and the answer will always be clear-forgive and forget.

Actions - Hugs and kisses may seem simple to many but these simple acts can make a relationship lasts a lifetime. My husband never fails to express his love for me through services; he would sometimes wash the dishes, help me hang the clothes, cook foods, or throwing "I love you" on Facebook when he is online and away. These things mean a lot to me and I love him more when he does those things.

Words - Words are powerful, it can break or make a man. Choosing which words we'll say will define how long a relationship will last. So choose to speak kind words to each other even in times of misunderstandings. Words of kindness, appreciations and encouragements will always result positive things.

When we truly love our spouse, we will do everything in our power to elevate and protect our relationship. The above mentioned principles may seem simple yet when practiced and applied would help bring joy, fulfillment and success into your marriage. Strengthen your relationship to overcome whatever device the world is using to destroy families. A harmonious relationship will be a sanctuary despite living in this troubled world.